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Cleaning sex toys after every use helps reduce bacteria buildup and extends the life of the product. The right method depends on the material and whether the toy has a motor or electronics.

This guide covers standard practices based on manufacturer recommendations and common expert advice for non-porous and porous materials. It is for adults 18+. This is not medical advice. Always follow the specific instructions that came with your toy.

See our body-safe sex toy materials guide for material details. If you are choosing a first toy, start with how to choose your first vibrator.

Why Cleaning Matters

Non-porous materials (silicone, borosilicate glass, stainless steel, hard ABS plastic) can be cleaned more thoroughly than porous ones (jelly, TPE/TPR, “skin-like” materials). Porous toys can trap bacteria below the surface even after washing.

General rule from multiple sources: clean before first use and after every use. Dry completely before storage to prevent mold or mildew.

Cleaning by Material

100% Silicone (Non-Porous, No Motor)

  • Everyday: Rinse with warm (not hot) water. Wash with mild, unscented soap or a dedicated toy cleaner. Rinse thoroughly. Air dry or pat with a clean lint-free cloth.
  • Deep clean (non-motorized only): Boil for 3–10 minutes in a pot of water (place a folded towel at the bottom to prevent melting or sticking). Let cool fully. Or top rack of the dishwasher without detergent on a hot cycle.

Motorized silicone toys: Do not boil or fully submerge unless the manufacturer states it is waterproof and safe for that method. Wipe carefully around charging ports.

Glass and Stainless Steel

These are non-porous and heat-resistant in most cases.

  • Wash with mild unscented soap and warm water.
  • Boil non-electronic versions for 3–10 minutes for sanitizing.
  • Inspect glass for chips or cracks before each use. Discard if damaged.

Hard ABS Plastic

Soap and warm water only. Do not boil unless the manufacturer explicitly allows it.

Porous Materials (TPE, TPR, Jelly, Cyberskin)

Surface cleaning only. These cannot be fully sterilized.

  • Rinse thoroughly with warm water.
  • Use a dedicated toy cleaner spray if available.
  • Many experts recommend covering with a condom for added barrier, especially if sharing.
  • Replace more frequently than non-porous toys (commonly suggested every 6–12 months depending on use and condition).

Avoid alcohol, bleach solutions, or harsh dish soap on silicone or soft materials unless the manufacturer specifies otherwise — they can degrade the surface.

Waterproof vs. Splash-Proof

Only submerge toys rated as fully waterproof (often IPX7). “Splash-proof” means external wipe-down only. Check the product page. Never charge a wet toy.

Drying and Storage

  • Pat dry with a clean, lint-free cloth or paper towel.
  • Air dry fully on a clean surface before storing (15–30 minutes or longer for complex shapes).
  • Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Original pouches, clean fabric bags, or separate drawers work. Avoid storing multiple toys touching if one is silicone and another is porous, as materials can interact over time.
  • Keep charging cables and remotes dry. Wipe remotes with a slightly damp cloth only.

Frequently Asked Questions

How often should I clean sex toys?
Before first use and after every use for most people. Clean before and after if sharing with a partner.

Can I use antibacterial soap?
Mild unscented soap is commonly recommended. Antibacterial versions are sometimes used but are not required for routine cleaning of non-porous toys. Rinse thoroughly to avoid residue.

Is boiling safe for all silicone toys?
Only for 100% silicone toys with no motor, battery, or electronics, and only if the manufacturer allows it. Motorized toys should not be boiled.

What about toy cleaner sprays?
Many brands sell them. Follow the label: typically spray, wait the recommended time, then wipe or rinse. They are convenient for quick cleans.

Can I put toys in the dishwasher?
Some non-motorized silicone, glass, or metal toys can go on the top rack without detergent. Confirm with the manufacturer. Never put electronic toys in the dishwasher.

Proper cleaning is one of the simplest ways to keep toys hygienic and lasting longer. Pair this habit with body-safe materials from our materials guide.

This guide is for informational purposes for adults 18+. Always follow your specific product’s instructions.

This content is general information, not medical advice. If you have a health condition, allergy (for example to latex or certain lubricants), pain or are pregnant, ask a healthcare professional.